Attract the perfect relationship that you want...

In this insightful article, Ewan Nicholson explores how the power of intention supports you in finding the perfect relationship.

The issue of finding love, or even maintaining a perfect relationship, can be problematic and stressful, to say the least. With all the modern match-making methods of internet and speed dating, it should, in theory, be easier and easier to find a perfect relationship. Yet the truth is that for many of us, finding the perfect relationship is hard work, and with little return.

There seems to be a cycle: Being unhappy and single, driven by the desire to be in a perfect relationship with someone and the fear of being alone. This is then followed with being disheartened that the efforts have been fruitless or even hurtful. And then follows a period of disenchanted apathy, where the pursuit of love or even a perfect relationship is supplemented with eating chocolate and buckets of ice cream. After a while, unless we really enjoy indulging in feeling sorry for ourselves, we get back out there, and do the whole thing all over again in order to find our perfect relationship. We are trapped in the dilemma of not wanting to repeat the cycle, but not wanting to give up altogether. So what do we do? How do we attract the perfect relationship at the perfect time?

What we often fail to recognise in this process is how powerful our intention is to find our perfect relationship. Intention is the direct flow of what our heart wishes for. When we nourish an intention, we create a flow of feelings and energies, which contribute to this outcome or goal. In our society, we have become locked in linear time, so that we see our future as this very line and our new relationship as an event somewhere along that line, which we are constantly working towards to make it perfect. Yet like the carrot in front of the donkey, as close as it seems to be, we never really make it there. When you relax and nourish your intention, you are lining up with a way of manifestation as the universe creates. All you have to do is look at how life comes into being. Before a baby is born, it is nourished in the womb. At the right moment, the baby comes forth into its new life.

You probably think, ‘Hey - I have a heart feeling already about wanting a perfect relationship, which I nourish morning, noon and night. So why have I still not got the perfect relationship I want.’ We may not realise it, but often our intention is sabotaged by sub-conscious patterns. You have an intention to attract a stronger relationship, but underneath you may have a habit of feeling sorry for yourself. Then that habit may constantly work to undermine your desire for a close and perfect relationship. So part of the process of unlocking the power of your intention is also being aware of what blocks the flow of your intention. This takes time and a degree of insight and self-observation.

What to do to find this “perfect relationship”

So what you can do first and foremost is relax about attracting the perfect relationship. What I have found in the numerous readings I have done in helping people to find love is that anxiety, stress and depression, don’t exactly help in finding a good and perfect relationship. All the tension does is blur and water down the strength and power of your intention in finding the perfect relationship. If you practise just for five minutes a day visualising yourself in the perfect relationship, this contributes to you attracting someone more than anything, as what you are doing is nourishing a sense of what you want deep within your heart. You are then relaxing and letting the universe do the rest. This does not mean you become passive and wait for the love of your life to knock on your door and have this perfect relationship. Rather it means that you are generating a feeling, a light within, so that when you are out and about, flurrying through work, having a swim, or playing golf, your intention will be attracting the perfect person. When you tap into the power of your intention, when you are saying to yourself daily that you are the creator, you are not a being a victim, you are trusting in the timing of life. This doesn’t mean that you get what you want when you want it. Rather it means that what is right for you and what is right for someone else will happen in its own right time.

Ewan Nicholson is a renowned psychic clairvoyant and author, who has helped literally thousands of people with his amazing gifts and insight